This article: "If there is no excuse, except for yourself, for why you can't meet women, then it's time to turn things around and fast. Here are six things that attract women and how you can control these things."
Learning how to create attraction has to be the number one reason why guys send in email questions. Because they just don’t get it. And even when shown the open doorway to creating attraction they are too scared to walk through. A lack of confidence in themselves is the reason why many men fail. They fail at meeting women. They fail at great first impressions. They fail at talking on the phone and yes, they even may get that all important first date but they put themselves out on a shaky limb, the girl instinctively feels his lack of confidence and she loses interest in him faster than a snowflake melts in hell.
For a guy to be successful with women he has to be in control of six things:
1. Means
2. Power
3. Fame
4. Looks
5. Exclusivity
6. Personality
1. Means
2. Power
3. Fame
4. Looks
5. Exclusivity
6. Personality
Now let’s break this down:
Means: how you can afford wealthy items, expensive gifts for yourself and those around you. Can you afford extravagance? If yes, then you hate the Means.
Power: To have power you must be a leader with the ability to lead people, not being a follower. You are decisive, in control of events around you can provide safety for those in your crowd.
Fame: You are well known outside of your own circle of friends for an achievement of sorts.
Looks: They way you look, being able to look great, stand tall (height is a great part of your looks), dress sharply, cleanly.
Exclusivity: Are you hard to get with because of a certain affiliation, do you have a royal heritage (Prince Harry has no problems with the girls, no matter what he does!), do you keep your circle of friends tight around you that will require additional work for someone to be able to meet you?
Personality: Are you creative? Romantic? Funny? Easily well liked? Do people walk across the room to hear you talk, to be in your presence?
These six things that you need to be in control of, which is the easiest for you to control in the next 20 minutes? Will you be richer in the next twenty minutes? Will you gain power of people and events? Not likely! You won’t get better looking, you won’t have people walking in your shadow trying to catch up to you, you have no exclusivity! That leaves us with your personality.
Your personality is the one main thing you can control in any situation, with anyone, in any place. Your personality can shine, sparkle, tease and seduce.
When you can instantly make yourself likeable, friend-ready, dateable and even inspiring, it’s due to a magnetic personality.
It is true that people only see what they want to see. And women in particular are looking for a guy that exudes confidence, is funny and has personality.
When you can talk and be heard, when people cross the room to talk to you, to introduce themselves to you, you are magnetic.
And where can you learn the magic aspects of personality?
My ebook, Double Your Dating is all about personality and becoming ‘cocky and funny’ with women that creates instant, undeniable attraction.
Let’s take a letter from someone that has read the ebook and applied the personality concept to himself with successful results:
***SUCCESS STORY***
